I also focussed on just being a kind and caring appointed man...someone people could just talk to and feel supported.
I was blatantly told by elders that I was being "permissive and an apologist" by not enforcing the strict regurgitated society responses....
I focussed on helping people build their self esteem and confidence.
It became impossible to continue to fade while still remaining appointed and having to play the games....
The FEAR, OBLIGATION and GUILT, that the organisation binds on the shoulders of the flock is deplorable. It is certainly NOT kindly as Jesus recommended.
Read something earlier today and the societies equivalent of trinity is dedication doctrine. Is cause for competition between brothers and the harmful judgment that goes along with it. Are you living up to your dedication ? Never sat right with me now I know why, it's blatantly bogus. For those that still believe it's about baptism and not 'dedication' which is not even found in the bible. As the author put it it has to be argued in just like the trinity.